Recently I had a chance to see how the human heart and spirit can overrule the rational mind, even in hypothetical circumstances. At a local educational event on palliative and hospice care, a woman in her 80s in the audience was attentive and engaged during the presentation. During the discussion that followed the presentation, she talked about how she wanted to look into becoming an organ donor.
But then, she asked the experts if her heart stopped and if she had decided to opt for CPR but it didn’t work, “Can’t there be a miracle?” In other words, before being pronounced dead, couldn’t there be some other way to revive her and enable her to live on? And would she be pronounced dead before her miracle kicked in?
We all want miracles, do we not? We want to have hope when all evidence points to the contrary. That’s why I found her question so poignant, so human. This woman, who had at first seemed to be a realist regarding the question of mortality – accepting it on an intellectual level – was at the same time wandering in the realm of magical thinking.
We’re all susceptible, truth be told. But there are a few things to keep in mind to avoid wandering into this realm ourselves.
I blogged about it for the website sixtyandme.com, and you can read it here:
Wishing you all a wonderful start to summer, this coming weekend!
One thought on “Magical Thinking in End-of-Life Issues”
So interesting, especially about doctors opting out of any end-of-life treatments except pain meds. That’s definitely food for thought. Wilma